ok, i decided i need to share something close to my heart here...
i guess this realisation and imprints of how precious life and health is started from my previous work with people who are sick, then having friends and families who are dying, and now, reading about photographers who, despite being at the top of their career, being sucessful, having everything, but health.
i take it as a warning to myself always to take care of myself and people around me. that includes my husband, my family, friends, and the great team i work with at the studio.
o, even my darling qq.
u see, i have been a great fan of the bebbs studio, who is named as one of the greatest photographers in the world, no doubt, since she is not only a great wedding photographer, she is a very good businesswoman, and a mentor, running many seminars. recently i found out that she has been very quiet recently as she has a bad brush with cancer. and had to remove everything in her pelvic region, that's really really bad for a woman. seriously. luckily, she had kids already. Bebbs' story at
http://bebbblog.squarespace.com/ok, basically, something in her story struck me close to heart - "On April 3rd I cried. A lot. I thought about my boys and how important they are to me. I thought about Steve and how it was way too soon for this to happen to us. I thought about my friends and family and how to tell them the news.
I thought about my clients and wondered how I was going to shoot their weddings while dealing with this. "
the last line was something i truly understand and that's the great difference between being a therapist and being someone's appointed photographer. so when friends commented that it must be fun doing photography, haha, i realised that on top of being fun, it is also a HUGE responsiblity.
so for the sake of my loved ones and my couples, i got to take really good care of myself! and i am so going to nag dyl to go have his heart check-up immediately. and i am so going to nag elizabeth to not skip lunch, and i am so going to nag john to take regular meals, and i am going to bring qq for her vaccination next week. :p
(these are the 4 people i see everyday - well,qq is a person to me)
hahahahaha.
Im the mother hen.